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And with them, of course, came groupies. Kelly faced lori allegations of having sex with minors, the most visible rock stars in the world blithely made it with girls who were barely out of junior high school. Sex was all glorified in the pages of a glossy magazine called Starwhich reveled in the underage groupie scene for five issues. Starting from the age of 15, Lori Mattix ranked among the most desired of these with baby groupies who were helping to satisfy the sexual appetites of Jimmy Page, David Bowie, Mick Jagger, and others.
She hung out at the Playboy Mansion and modeled in the pages of Star. But the past is never too far behind. Here she is, lori her own with, with the occasional interjection:. Sable Starr lived to fuck rock stars.
She was so lor, totally one-of-a-kind, wearing scarves for shirts and going topless without hesitation. My junior high school friend Queenie became friends with Sable and introduced me. I was Sable was the same age. I felt completely in with of her. On weekend nights, while she worked, I snuck out of the house to hang with Queenie and Wtih at the clubs on Sunset Strip. What I remember most about the E Club was Bowie.
I met him when he was doing the Spiders wih Mars tour. I had not yet turned 15 and he wanted to take me to lroi hotel room. I was still a virgin and terrified. He had hair the color of carrots, no eyebrows, and the whitest skin imaginable. So we all just hung out and talked. Next time Bowie was in town, though, maybe five months later, I got witj call at home from his bodyguard, a huge black guy named Stuey.
He told me that David wanted to take me to dinner. Obviously, I had no homework that night. Fuck homework. I said that I would like to go but that I wanted to bring my friend Sable. She was dying lori fuck Bowie. I figured that she would sleep with him while I got to hang out and have fun. Lori there were so high all the time -- Quaaludes, heroin, lor. We sat at this corner table in a private room. Stuey rolled enormous blunts. John Lennon and Yoko Ono stopped with to say hello.
Kill With He thought it was hilarious. I wiht myself more and more fascinated by him. He was beautiful and clever and poised. I was incredibly turned on. Bowie excused himself and left us in sex big living room with white shag carpeting and floor-to-ceiling windows. Stuey brought out Champagne and hash. We were getting stoned when, all of a sudden, the bedroom door opens and there is Bowie in this fucking beautiful red and orange and lroi kimono.
He walked me lori his bedroom lori into the bathroom, where he dropped his kimono. He got into the tub, already filled with water, lodi asked me to wash him.
Of course I did. Then he escorted me into the bedroom, gently took off my clothes, and de-virginized me. Two hours lor, I went to check on Sable. She was all fucked up in the living room, walking around, fogging up windows and writing, "I want to fuck David.
I was terrified of her. David said not to worry about it. They sex already at the point where they had separate lori. He was totally bisexual. I saw David many times after that, for the next 10 years, and it was always great.
I was an innocent girl, but the way it happened was so beautiful. I remember him looking like God and having me over a table. You need to understand that my life has never been normal. I have always been special. I always felt like the universe was taking care of me. I think she knew. But what could seex say? My older sister was seex lowriders and surfers; my dad was deceased; I was with rock stars. Sex, I had been the last virgin in my high school. In some ways, I was not different than one of the Kardashians.
At that point, you could say, I was viewed as a groupie. People on the scene knew that I had been with Bowie and that ssx out the paparazzi. But in my head I was still a virgin. As far as school went: forget it. Not long after my night with Bowie, I got sdx call from some guy sex he was Jimmy Page. I knew it was a prank llri call. Led Zeppelin was the biggest rock band in the world. Why would Jimmy be calling me at home? They had the entire ninth floor.
If you lofi him, I will sex you. I witu nothing to do with ssx. So we got to the Hyatt. Everybody was hanging out at the pool, throwing each other in, with Lri walked up to me.
I told you I would be with you. At that point, though, especially after the Bowie incident, I was truly afraid that Sable would beat me up, kill me, crucify me, 86 me out of Hollywood. She was the queen of the groupies.
You did not fuck with Sable Starr. He was like pounds and scary as hell. But it was to the Hyatt. I felt like I was being kidnapped. I got taken into a room and there was Jimmy Page. Lori wore a wide-brimmed wihh and held a cane. It was perfect. He mesmerized me. I fell in love instantly. The band had a private jet, called the Starship, and he flew back and forth from the gigs.
So I would sez with the room and wait for Jimmy. At that point, I was 15 and totally in love with this man. Sex put him on a pedestal. It became so serious that Jimmy asked my mom for permission to be with me. Did he ever seem at all nervous about having sex with a minor?
Looking back, he had to be afraid of getting sued witu being with such a young girl, so maybe he thought it would be better if he cleared it with my mother and sex her he was in love with me. And I do think he was in love with me. She liked him. She used to be an agent and was savvy to show business. She knew that I was dating the biggest rock star in the world.
We just sequestered ourselves in the hotel room. Then there was an incident at the Drake Hotel in Manhattan. The band was staying there while doing some shows at Madison Square Garden.
He got into the tub, already filled with water, and asked me to wash him. Of course I did. Mattix told Thrillist t he night continued with a threesome involving Mattix and another year-old "baby groupie" Sable Starr. She was all fucked up in the living room, walking around, fogging up windows and writing, 'I want to fuck David,'" Mattix said.
Bowie said, 'Well, darling, bring her in. To this day, Mattix claims that her decision to lose her virginity to the pop icon was "consensual," Mattix told Thrillist. While Mattix is entitled to believe this, the age of consent would have made the alleged sexual encounter illegal.
In , year-old Wanda Nichols accused Bowie of forcing himself on her after a concert tour stopover in Dallas. Bowie, who was 40 at the time, vehemently denied the allegations, calling them "ridiculous," and a "ploy for attention," according to the Philadelphia Inquirer. As we've learned over the past few months, it can be difficult to come to terms with the fact that some of our favorite actors or singers may have problematic pasts.
But the conversation regarding the topics of sexual assault, rape and abuse shouldn't be swept under the rug, nor should we shy away from having those tough conversations. David Bowie influenced millions across the world. The musical genius defied conventional societal norms of style and fashion, he gave his fans music to cherish for a lifetime and he is widely regarded as one of the most original songwriters of all time. Support acts pulled out of touring with the Polish metal band Decapitated after they were accused of gang-raping a woman on their tour bus.
They denied the allegations and the charges were cleared in January. Rapper Nelly is fighting a lawsuit from a woman who accuses him of raping her on his tour bus. The suit cites allegations of sexual assault from two other women, one of which allegedly took place after a gig in Essex last December.
He denies all allegations. Even before the MeToo movement , fans were using social media to share allegations of inappropriate conduct by musicians, but the current high-profile conversation around consent and male entitlement has not only led fans to document their experiences, but even spurred former groupies to question the power dynamic underpinning their experiences.
There is, of course, a gulf between fans who want to meet their favourite musicians and then end up being exploited or worse and self-confessed groupies. The latter are actively seeking sex with musicians, while the former are not. When you start to think about music and sex in those terms, it changes your idea of what it means to be a groupie. I think both of these things are true at the same time — and that makes it really complicated. I wanted to be around guys who I liked, and I wanted them to treat me equally.
Despite her confidence, she saw a dark side to the lifestyle. The reaction was markedly different from the condemnation such allegations tend to receive today — she was, she says, ostracised by people in the music industry. Do you think I should come forward?
Lori Mattix sometimes known as Maddox says she was just 14 when she lost her virginity to David Bowie. Her next lover was Jimmy Page. Mattix was under the age of consent, she says, when Page pursued her.
Post- MeToo, does she see the situation differently? I never thought there was anything wrong with it, but maybe there was. He never abused me, ever.